waterstone photography

I had the unique opportunity to photograph a funeral. Rather, a celebration of life.

At the request of the widow, I was invited to “get right in there” to capture the moments of her last goodbyes.

I must admit that being there with my camera was quite bittersweet. Bitter, considering the circumstances, and sweet, to embrace a new photographic challenge and to witness such a display of love and remembrance.

I had known Bernie for most, if not all, of my life. He and Edith were members of my church and were the leaders of the Youth Group. They were so awesome to be around – so full of life, energetic, and super encouraging. You couldn’t be sad around them, that’s for sure!

It was near the end of 2007 when Bernie was diagnosed with a brain tumour. After treatments, it seemed he was getting better by the day. However, he took a turn for the worse.

Bernie fought a good fight. He was never negative about his situation, never wanted to be pitied. In fact, through many of the testimonies I heard at the funeral, he kept encouraging others during his time of pain & suffering. He was just that kind of guy.

The challenges I faced with this unique opportunity included my fear of being judged. I’ll admit, I was extremely nervous to be there with my camera and tripod. It would seem a bit odd, no? However, there were other people with video cameras, and that helped to soothe my anxiety. My other challenge was taking the photos of Edith’s goodbyes. I was especially emotional during that time, I believe because I know this family. It was hard – crying, trying not to cry too loud, and taking photos while trying to hold steady is not as easy as it sounds.

At the end of the day, we are all glad. Bernie is in a better place now – no more pain and suffering.